Commonly Used Terms in the Radqueer Community

TermDefinition
AAMStands for "adult attracted minor", as a label for all minors who are attracted to adults.
AblemedSomeone who supports those who are transabled, but only if the individual has BID/BIID or xenomelia. They might support those with Munchausen Syndrome, but they don't usually.
AldernicA term created by an exclusionist to
AntiAn umbrella term for all people who are against something, usually used to talk about people who are anti-radqueer, but can also mean anti-ship or anti something in specific, it just depends on the context.
Anti-contactOne of the contact stances where the person does not support contact when it comes to paraphilias. Depending on how the person defines it, this could mean things like "pedos shouldn't go near children at all ever", and is often used by people who say statements like that. Many people who were anti-contact now use the term pro-consent.
Anti-shipSomeone who is the opposite of pro-ship and believes that people should be harassed and sent to prison over thoughts and fictional works. They usually believe that fiction and reality are exactly the same, and value fictional characters over real human beings.
BIDMore commonly called BIID, it stands for Body Identity Dysphoria. It is a medical disorder.
The Big Three"The big three" is a label for the three most stigmatized paraphilias: Pedophilia, necrophilia, and zoophilia.
ChronoexcluAlso called exclusian. Someone who supports those who are transage/altage, but only if the individual doesn't use the term transage. Usually, the individual supports the term chronosian instead, although sometimes they may support the term altage.
Chronological ageChronological age is the age that one's body physically is. Also called chrono-age. Ex: Chrono-15.
CisabledSomeone who is bodily disabled, not of their own doing. Usually refers to physical disabilities, but not always.
ConsanguineamoryMost of the time shortened to consang, it describes consensual relationships between family members/people who are related. Most people who are consang dislike the term incest due to its connotations and it being used towards them in derogatory and insulting ways.
Contact-complexAlso called complex-contact. One of the contact stances, where your views differ depending on the situation, paraphilia, individuals involved, etc.
CritinclusSomeone who is "critically inclusive". This is used by exclusionists to justify excluding identities, and the coiner claims that it is a "less harmful" version of radinclus, but it is in fact very harmful and exclusionist and is a false label created to justify and normalize exclusionism. The creator of the term (mogai-sunflowers) has also sent pro-shippers and radqueer folks death threats and expressed other violent things towards them, claiming that "pro-shippers deserve it".
Internal ageThe age one is internally/mentally. Also called intra-age. Ex: Intra-12.
MAPStands for "minor attracted person", and was a term created by medical professionals as an umbrella term for all folks who are attracted to minors. Many people claim it was "created by pedophiles to disguise their true intentions", but that is not true as it encompasses more than just pedophilia and was created by medical professionals.
ParabledSomeone who is plural in some way and has a different disability/neurodivergency in some way in the headspace/in exomemories than their body physically does. It was created as a "non-harmful" term to be used by plurals instead of using transabled.
ParaphileSomeone who has a paraphilia. Sometimes called paraphiliac. Being a paraphile does not necessarily mean you're going to act on your attraction, though that depends on whether you are pro-contact, anti-contact, contact-complex, etc.
ParaphiliaAn abnormal/atypical attraction. This includes all kinks/fetishes, as well as things like pedophiles, necrophiles, zoophiles, etc.
ParethnicAlso called paraethnic, this is a term for someone who is plural and has a different race/ethnicity in the headspace/in exomemories than their body has. It was created to be a "non-harmful" term to be used by plurals instead of using trace/transrace.
Pro-consentSort of a contact label, and is often used instead of saying anti-contact. It is used by people who support consensual contact when it comes to paraphilias.
Pro-contactSupporting contact when it comes to paraphilias. This usually is seen as a bad thing, due to some paraphilias being harmful when it comes to certain types of contact (such as erotophonophilia, pedophilia, zoophilia, biastophilia/raptophilia, etc.), but it depends on how the person defines it.
Pro-shipCommonly called "pro-shit" by anti-shippers, pro-shipping is where you understand that fiction and reality are not one and the same and you don't harass people at all. It is commonly associated with age gap, incestuous/consang, and abusive ships, but not all pro-shippers ship those things.
Pro-paraSomeone who supports paraphiles. A lot of "pro-para" people will claim to be pro-para but not support "the big three" (pedophiles, zoophiles, and necrophiles), but not all pro-para folks are against them.
QueerA broad term that encompasses the entire LGBTQ+ community. Some people claim that it is a slur and shouldn't be said, but the people who claim that are often exclusionists, TERFs, or transmeds.
RadinclusBeing radically inclusive of all good-faith identities. This is usually used by people who are exclusionist of paraphiles and transid folks, but not always. Some radinclus now use the term critinclus, due to the label of radinclus being used by people who are radqueer.
RadqueerRadqueer has two definitions. The most widely used and accepted definition nowadays is "radically accepting all queer identities, transidentities, and paraphilias", but an older definition is "radically accepting all queer identities and considering all transidentities and paraphilias queer".
Real RadinclusReal Radinclus is a term for those who are radinclus and actually inclusive of everyone. This includes transidentities, paraphilias, and all other stigmatized good-faith identities.
TransabledSomeone who feels as if they should acquire some sort of disability. Usually refers to physical disabilities, but not always.
TransageSomeone whose internal age does not line up with their chronological age in some way.
TransbodySomeone who believes their body should be different in some way. This is an umbrella term usually used instead of saying "transheight, transweight, transsex, transchroma, etc". It can include transrace, transabled, and transage, but doesn't usually.
TransidentityUsually shortened to transid, this is an umbrella term for every identity that begins with the trans- prefix, such as transrace/trace, transabled, transage, and transbody. It was most likely created due to the controversy/confusion around the term trans-x.
TransmedSomeone who believes you have to experience dysphoria to be transgender.
TransraceSomeone who doesn't fully identify with the race they were assigned/the race they biologically are. Also called trace or diarace/diaracial due to transracial/transrace commonly being used for adoptees.
Trans-xTrans-x is used as an umbrella term for all identities with the trans- prefix, such as transabled, trace/transrace, transage, and transbody. Due to it being similar to transX, a term created by transmeds for non-binary people who are dysphoric, the more common umbrella term is now transidentity/transid.